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Monday, November 28, 2011.

My advice:

Don’t feel trashy hun. A slut is when a girl goes from man to man and does sexual things with them. It’s like a girl version of a womanizer. From what you’re telling me; you’re not a slut if you’ve only done that with one guy. I hope he’s not pressuring you though. Because if he’s pressuring you, telling you things like “If you love me, let me do it,” then he really doesn’t love you and he just can’t control his hormones. Don’t let him pressure you into any further. You’re way too young for anything like that. I’m 17. I’ve never even kissed a boy. I don’t allow myself to fall too hard for anyone, even if it’s just for fun. And believe me when I say that guys try to disrespect me everywhere I go, from honking in their cars to yelling out sexual things. In reality, that would pressure a girl. But I don’t let it pressure me into doing something I’ll regret later.

You’re not a slut. You’re not trashy. Just stick to your limits. Don’t go above them. You’re so so young… You have a whole life ahead of you to experience things. Don’t rush. :) Please smile. You’re beautiful x :)

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